Finding a New Kind of Hope
A visit, a binge, and a realization
This past week, in the midst of travel and time changes, the concept of hope has been rising up. Not the kind tied to a specific outcome (hope for an on-time arrival), but the deeper kind that lives underneath it all (hope for a loving visit). This brand of hope doesn’t insist events turn out “just right”… only that something meaningful is unfolding.
And after recently focusing on gratitude — appreciating what is here right now— I’m noticing how hope sits right beside her like a supportive partner. If gratitude roots us in the present, hope lifts our gaze just slightly forward, toward light that may still be off in the horizon.
I saw this up close on my visit — spending time with someone I love deeply and who has navigated physical changes over the past few years with extraordinary resilience and grace. Each new chapter met not with denial, but with a steady optimism that says, “Alright… what’s next?”
The kind of hope I witnessed wasn’t about things never breaking down. It was about evolving alongside what changes, trusting that the essence of who we are remains intact (and perhaps even becomes clearer with time).
Psychologist Rick Snyder describes hope as a practice built on vision, pathways, and agency — having something we care about, finding more than one way forward, and believing we can keep moving. In mindfulness, I think of hope less as wishful thinking and more as a posture of openness. A willingness to stay in relationship with possibility.
And yes — in full transparency — I’ve also been researching hope by trying to mindfully watch (vs mindlessly binge 😉) House of David. One storyline that stayed with me was how David’s long-hoped-for wedding celebration so quickly turned to having to run for his life.
Yet from unlikely voices and unexpected turns, he’s reminded that freedom comes from living in his truth — not from perfect circumstances. Hope regenerates, even when the plot twists.
Perhaps hope grows strongest not when life goes exactly as planned, but when we discover we can still grow within the unplanned. Then it becomes an evergreen resource — less about prediction and more about trust.
If gratitude says, “Appreciate the beauty of what’s here, just as it is,” hope whispers, “Trust the promise waiting on the horizon.”
Here’s to honoring what is… and staying open to the light still finding its way toward us.



